EXPECTATIONS
For all real-time sessions, I expect you to arrive fresh, clean, and on time for your booking. I understand that delays happen and offer a 15-minute grace period. If the delay extends outside of the grace period, the length of our session may be impacted. I will consider reasonable outfit requests when made with at least 48 hours notice. For sessions that require elaborate or specific outfit/equipment requests, I ask that you procure or pay for the items yourself. For sessions that involve “insertables”, I require you to be cleaned out & prepared when you arrive for your session. I will consider requests for enema training when made with a least 48 hours notice.
Finally, I ask that you share a short, written reflection about our time together within 48 hours of our meeting. This is for my private archive & will only be shared publicly with your explicit consent.
SCREENING
Before we meet, I require that all prospective new friends submit to my brief screening process. This is a standard industry practice and helps to ensure my comfort & safety. My screening methods are discreet, privacy-focused, and non-negotiable, so I appreciate your cooperation. Please provide the following to complete screening:
Option 1: References from 2-3 professional Dominatrixes or independent providers who you’ve seen within the past year.
Option 2: Your company/employer information for discreet employment verification. Please provide:
Please note, I require a photo of your ID in addition to the screening methods listed. Please provide:
A clear photo of your non-expired, government-issued Passport, Driver’s License, or ID card. (You may omit your DL/ID/Passport number & address for privacy.)
DISCRETION & PRIVACY
It’s an unfortunate truth that we live in a world where BDSM and sex work are highly stigmatized, so I understand your concerns about disclosing your personal information online. Keeping your information private is of utmost priority to me & I utilize the following security measures to ensure your continued discretion:
Once screening is complete, all of your personal information is securely deleted.
I will never share your information without your permission. (For provider references, I ask that you contact me first so I have your consent.)
A secure VPN is used for all online interactions.
Emails are sent from my encrypted ProtonMail account. If you use ProtonMail our exchanges are fully encrypted.
Secure calls/texts are available on Signal or Telegram.
Communication only occurs during pre-scheduled or agreed-upon times. (ie. no unexpected calls/texts/emails & discretion is available when needed)
Booking forms are securely submitted with SSL encryption.
DEPOSIT POLICY
I require a 50% deposit for all bookings. Please note that your scheduled session is not confirmed until your deposit is received. I accept deposits electronically however cash deposits are preferred and may be sent overnight in the folds of a book or magazine to my business address. (Deposit methods are disclosed during the booking process.)
All consultations and virtual sessions require full payment upfront to book.
CANCELLATION POLICY
Your deposit is used to secure our hotel or dungeon space - therefore, if you must reschedule your session, I require at least 72 hours’ notice to apply your non-refundable deposit to a new booking within 30 days of the original date. If you cancel within 48 hours, you forfeit your deposit. if you cancel within 24 hours, I require a cancellation fee equal to 50% of the total booking amount. For same-day cancellations, my fee is 100% of the booking amount. In the unlikely event that I must cancel, I will refund your deposit within 3 days.
The only exception to this policy is a Covid-19-related cancellation.